What Does Bravery Look Like to You?

On trusting your instincts, embracing change, and finding the courage to live the life you imagine.


What does bravery look like to you?

Is it standing up for yourself when someone gets your story wrong? Setting the record straight without feeling obligated to convince everyone of your truth? Walking away from something you've outgrown, even when you've become comfortable with its familiarity?

Or is it something quieter?

Bravery can be welcoming new love when you don't know the entire story, but something about the experience feels worth exploring. It's allowing yourself to be open to something beautiful without needing to know exactly how everything will unfold.

It's saying no when the answer needs to be no. Other times, it's saying yes and allowing yourself to experience something new. And sometimes bravery is getting up and trying again, even when you've lost count of how many times you've gathered the courage to begin.

Bravery Doesn't Always Have to Be Loud

We often recognize bravery when it makes a statement. When someone speaks up, takes a stand, or makes a drastic change. But bravery can be soft. It can be steady, even when your hands are trembling and your heart is pounding.

Sometimes it's a whisper with a thump.

It's that feeling deep within you that says something deserves your attention. It's listening to your inner voice, knowing when to speak and when there's nothing left to explain, and refusing to let someone else's actions dictate the person you become.

And here's something I've come to appreciate about bravery: it compounds.

One decision strengthens another. One moment of self-trust creates room for another. The things that once felt difficult can become part of how you naturally move through life.

Bravery isn't just one quality. It's an umbrella that brings together self-respect, compassion, discernment, confidence, and the willingness to act. We discover those qualities within ourselves through the very experiences that ask us to be brave.

Sometimes We're Still Updating

You know that moment when your computer tells you an update is in progress?

You can see that something is happening, but you can't always tell how much longer it's going to take. You might be ready to use your computer again, but the process isn't finished.

I think personal growth can feel a little like that same way.

You're in the middle of becoming. You're learning things about yourself, reconsidering what matters, and recognizing that certain decisions require a different version of your attention.

You may not feel completely ready, but you're tired of waiting. And both things can be true at the same time.

You can still be figuring things out and feel ready to move. You can have questions and trust your instincts. You can recognize that something is changing without knowing exactly what the finished picture will look like.

That's part of what inspired me to revisit Bravery Unleashed.

When the Artwork Grows With You

When I revisited the cover of Bravery Unleashed: Redefining Courage and Igniting Personal Growth, I realized I had more to express. My perspective had expanded, and I wanted the illustration to reflect that.

So I gave her movement.

She's seated among the grass and flowers, her hair flowing, her arm extended, expressing a sense of freedom and possibility. There's something beautiful about that to me. She's comfortable in her own space, yet there's life and energy in the way she carries herself.

It reminded me that growth doesn't always require us to become someone entirely different. We can simply discover another way to express who we already are.

That realization goes far beyond a book cover.

Maybe you want to lose ten or twenty pounds. Change your hair. Buy a different car. Move somewhere new. Learn to sew. Start the business you've been talking about, or finally pursue something you've quietly imagined for yourself.

And sometimes it's much deeper than that.

Sometimes bravery is allowing yourself to live fully again after the most important person in your life has closed their eyes.

That's a different kind of courage. The kind that asks you to make room for happiness while continuing to carry love for someone who is no longer physically beside you.

To me, bravery isn't one definition or a checklist of things we're supposed to accomplish. It's deeply personal, and it can look completely different depending on the person and the circumstances.

Bravery can be doing the very thing that makes you smile when you close your eyes and imagine your life differently.

Even when the circumstances around you haven't changed. Even when the idea feels enormous, the path is unfamiliar, or you don't have every answer.

The timing might not seem to make sense. The resources aren't quite where you want them to be. You can think of a dozen reasons to wait, but something deep within you keeps saying, Now.

And you listen.

Not because you've figured everything out, but because you've recognized something worth moving toward.

That's what I wanted the woman on my cover to express. She's seated among the flowers and grass, full of movement and possibility, entirely at home in her own expression.

And she doesn't need anyone to tell her when the music begins.

A Workbook That Moves With You

I created Bravery Unleashed: Redefining Courage and Igniting Personal Growth because I believe there are people who recognize something they want to experience, change, pursue, or rediscover but aren't quite sure how to begin.

We can take for granted that because someone understands the importance of confidence, boundaries, or self-respect, they automatically know how to put those things into practice. But knowing and doing are two different experiences.

I wanted to create a guided workbook that feels like a hand-holding duet. Something that offers encouragement, thoughtful reflection, and room to explore your own decisions without telling you who you're supposed to become.

Your pace. My style. Your growth.

The intention is to help you feel accompanied while remaining independent in your own growth. To give you room to slow down, listen more carefully to yourself, and recognize when it's time to say no, when it's time to say yes, and when it's time to take action.

Because this isn't about who you might become someday. It's about recognizing what you can begin exploring right now.

The Courage to Begin Where You Are

Maybe you're ready to make a personal change, build something of your own, establish healthier boundaries, welcome new love, or explore a different direction in your life. You may find yourself somewhere between feeling ready and still figuring things out.

You might want to move forward even when the timing doesn't seem to make sense and the resources aren't quite where you want them to be.

But bravery doesn't always require a drastic change. It can begin with one decision that feels deeply personal.

Bravery is allowing yourself to participate in the life you've been imagining.

And if you've been waiting for the right moment to begin, or you're ready to discover what lies on the other side of hesitation, I created this book with you in mind.

EXPLORE BRAVERY UNLEASHED

Lesley D. Nurse
Author, Illustrator & Founder, 7Seven Spark Publishing

God Is Working on a Bigger Yes

The Book I Wrote When God Went Quiet


Some things call you to take the lead.

For someone who usually thinks everything through, I had no power over this command.

I was perplexed by how strongly it tugged at me to share vulnerabilities I once believed could sabotage my career. I wanted to come across as wise, polished, and as though I just happened to know things.

But life had become too messy, and the losses were too many to count.

Who was I to share my naked truths?

God Is Working on a Bigger Yes didn’t care about my comfortable standards—or rules, depending on who you ask.

Everything was crumbling. There had been too many false hopes, too many losses, and too many financial scares piling on top of one another.

And finally, I said, okay.

It’s time.

I had no strategy for this book.

It wouldn’t allow me to wrap everything in a bow, share a few cute Pinterest-worthy affirmations, and call it healing. I would’ve been perfectly happy to celebrate a sale or two and quietly move on.

But the energy behind this book commanded more.

This wasn’t only about me.

It carried a message that felt almost like an oath I must’ve taken in another lifetime. A spiritual debt owed. A promise I didn’t remember making.

Whatever it was, I felt compelled.

The rejections.

The loss of my best friend, who birthed me.

Trying to wrap my head around debt I inherited, questionable finances, and the realization that I was no longer willing to stay anywhere toxic just because leaving would be difficult.

Every fire.

Every rejection.

Every gray area.

I got tired of hope.

I got tired of saying everything was fine and reminding myself to be thankful while my life felt like it was collapsing in real time.

This was ugly.

This was ongoing.

And I couldn’t whimsically wipe it away.

This pain had bones.

It had teeth.

Every day, the pain reminded me it was still there.

So I transmuted it into words and art. I kept putting the pieces together until they finally allowed me to breathe.

And there it was.

I wrote God Is Working on a Bigger Yes for the people who are beyond tired.

For the heartbroken.

For the person stuck in a season where no answer arrives on time, and it feels like one may never come.

For those who feel like life turned its back on them.

For the people who have been bracing for pain and surviving for so long that they almost forgot how to feel, how to love, or whether healing is only meant for certain people.

Months passed, and I realized I had left unfinished business out of the book.

It’s one thing to share a pivotal season and leave the reader feeling good.

But what happens when they’re ready to act and don’t know where to begin?

Will this work?

Will I be okay?

That kept tugging at me.

So I returned.

I expanded the book because this isn’t a one-and-done story where life becomes perfect after the final page.

This requires faith.

Diabolical optimism.

Grace.

Focus.

But the most important thing it requires is desire.

Because when you don’t want something badly enough, disappointment can defeat you before you ever give yourself a real chance.

This book is straight to the point.

What you give is what you get.

But more importantly, how you give is how you’ll receive.

I did the work so you could pick up the book and begin.

If you’re in the thick of it right now, this book is for you.

Not while you’re still trying to fix it.

Not while you’re convincing yourself you’ve got one more push left.

This is for when the tank is empty—and so is your faith.

That’s where we begin—

and where your bigger yes can begin to breathe.

BREATHE: Whispers from the Deep

A Gentle Guide Through Seven Transformative Currents

Imagine this.

It’s a sunny day.

Light moves easily through the room. You’re sitting still for a moment, a mug in your hand, sipping something warm. Nothing is urgent right now. Everything feels calm enough.

You haven’t checked the mailbox in days.

And when you finally do, you realize something quietly unsettling:

the things you’ve been managing never actually went away.

The job didn’t arrive in time.

The check still hasn’t shown up.

The bills won’t wait.

You handle one thing, and something else comes up.

You fix one problem, and another takes its place.

There’s no ending in sight.

It’s not one big moment.

It’s the way things compound.

And anyone who manages a household, a career, a family, a future understands this. One thing alone is manageable. But when timing, responsibility, money, and uncertainty stack — the weight shifts.

That’s when it can start to feel like you’re drowning.

And that’s when it hit me.

There I was — deep in the water in my mind.

Hands tied.

Held in place by everything waiting. Everything unfinished.

I stayed there for a moment longer than I needed to.

Then something shifted.

As I came back to my center, I realized my hands were tied — but they weren’t tight. I moved my feet. I changed my angle. And slowly, I understood something I hadn’t seen before:

I wasn’t as deep as I felt.

When I lifted my hand, I could see light again.

I could feel warmth.

I could breathe.

Sometimes it’s not that life is unbearable.

It’s that if one more thing happens, it feels like everything might collapse into the sea.

That headspace — that moment — is where this book began.

What is BREATHE: Whispers from the Deep?

BREATHE: Whispers from the Deep is a guided journal created for seasons when life is compounding and you need a steady place to pause, breathe, and return to yourself — one prompt at a time.

Who is this guided journal for?

It’s for the strong ones who carry a lot quietly.

For anyone navigating change, pressure, uncertainty, or loss while still showing up.

For those who don’t need to be told what’s wrong — they just need somewhere safe to land.

Sometimes you don’t want advice.

Sometimes you don’t want solutions.

Sometimes you just want to hear someone ask,

Are you okay?

What’s inside: Seven Transformative Currents

Inside, you’ll move through seven gentle currents — a guided flow of reflections designed to help release mental weight, soften overwhelm, and reconnect with clarity at your own pace.

There’s no rush here.

No fixing.

No performance.

Just space — for your words, your rhythm, your breath.

No matter where we are in life, we come back to the same essentials.

We inhale.

We exhale.

We need water.

We need reminders that we’re not alone.

That was the space I was in when I created this journal.

And when I think about it now, I’m reminded that even when circumstances don’t change overnight, taking one more breath can change how we see what’s possible.

And that’s when it hits you —

you’re closer than you think.

The Magic of Belief: How “Hollie’s Sparkle Ride” Found Its Light

When I began writing Hollie’s Sparkle Ride: The Christmas Wish That Came to Life, I had no idea how much Hollie’s spirit would mirror my own. What started as a simple story about courage and belief turned into a personal reminder that dreams don’t just happen — we create them.

Like Hollie, there are moments we all doubt ourselves — moments when fear, criticism, or past experiences whisper louder than faith. But then there’s that small spark inside that says, try again.

That spark is the heartbeat of this book. Hollie’s story is a celebration of believing in your light — not chasing it, but creating it — one brave step at a time. Whether you’re a parent, teacher, or someone rediscovering hope, Hollie reminds us that magic isn’t only for Christmas morning. It’s for every time you decide to believe in yourself again.

This book found me during a time when I needed it most, and now, I’m honored to share that magic with you.

Hollie’s Sparkle Ride: The Christmas Wish That Came to Life
Available wherever books are sold and through Ingram for retailers and libraries.

No Plan B: The Only Backup Plan Is to Get Back Up

I remember when someone asked me, “So what is your plan B?” and I was quick to say, “There is no plan B.” That was one of my big ideas, and it still shapes me today. Life has thrown rejections, twists, and unfair turns my way — but the burning belief in my writing never left.

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